Umu ndi momwe kugonana kwapakhomo kumawonekera kwa okwatirana omwe adakumana posachedwa. Komabe chidwi osati wotopa, monga iwo amati banja silinayambe anaika chizindikiro chake pa kugonana! Ndiyeno amayamba ana, moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, ndondomeko yogwira ntchito ndi kupeza ndalama ... Ndipo kugonana kotereku koyezera komanso kosafulumira kumaimitsidwa kumapeto kwa sabata, pamene mungathe kugona mwamtendere ndipo musafulumire kulikonse! Ndipo ndizochititsa manyazi, zingakhale zabwino kukhala nazo tsiku lililonse.
Dona wonenepa, komabe woyenera kwambiri tsabola. Mwa njira nyamatayo sanamuvutitse, adayika kondomu pa mbolo yofota kwambiri! Patapita nthawi iye analawako. Koma mulimonse, kangapo matako ake adangotuluka kuchokera kumaliseche ake, sanazolowerane ndi matako akulu oterowo! N'kutheka kuti anali atatota atsikana okha ndi maliseche opapatiza kale.
Msungwana wamng'ono amagwiritsira ntchito kamwana kake bwino mu malo a dohystyle, mungadziwe kuti akutentha, ndipo amachotsa mathalauza ake akamagwetsa.