Umu ndi momwe kugonana kwapakhomo kumawonekera kwa okwatirana omwe adakumana posachedwa. Komabe chidwi osati wotopa, monga iwo amati banja silinayambe anaika chizindikiro chake pa kugonana! Ndiyeno amayamba ana, moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, ndondomeko yogwira ntchito ndi kupeza ndalama ... Ndipo kugonana kotereku koyezera komanso kosafulumira kumaimitsidwa kumapeto kwa sabata, pamene mungathe kugona mwamtendere ndipo musafulumire kulikonse! Ndipo ndizochititsa manyazi, zingakhale zabwino kukhala nazo tsiku lililonse.
Mfundo yakuti mlongoyo ali ndi chidwi ndi maganizo a mchimwene wake womulera ndi choyamikirika. Ndipo kuwunika kuyenera kwake kuchokera kumalingaliro amunthu momwe angathere. Koma kumufunsa kuti atuluke pamaso pake ndi chinthu chodabwitsa. Iye amutenga iye, sichoncho iye? Msungwana waulesi yekhayu sachita mantha konse - ndizo zomwe akufuna. Anamaliza kutulutsa chithaphwi chonse pamimba pake! Anachiyendetsa icho.
O, ine ndinkafuna izo nthawi yomweyo.